That’s the question that has haunted me for years. Decades even. I wondered it as I read Laura Ingalls Wilder books during my childhood, wondered it afresh as I wandered from college to grad school dropout to unemployed-but-I-know-where-I-want-to-live, and I wonder it still. Every day.
In fact, I’ve been contemplating “how does a person build a fulfilling life?” so much lately that I haven’t been able to write one word on the topic. Hence the recent radio silence on this blog (for the first time in 1.5 years!).
I’m currently being forced to put into practice everything I’ve spent years considering, writing about, and researching. My life is undergoing seismic shifts: new career path for my husband, new work opportunities for me, moving to a new home [current status = our house is under contract to be sold and we can’t find a house we want to buy…yikes]. It’s a lot like…hmmm….being 20something all over again. Even though I just hit my 36th birthday. Proof positive that life is all about cycles of change and stability, forever and always, until the day we die.
When things are getting all shaken up, THAT’S when we need to be most intentional and present about building a life that we’ll find fulfilling and valuable. But what exactly does that entail? That’s a question we each have to answer for ourselves, and the question that has filled my mind much more than it has filled blank pages of late.
I trust that my “stability” period is coming down the pike and I’ll finally be able to process in words all that I’m currently experiencing. But that time is not yet, so this blog will remain quiet for a while longer. (Which may be just fine with you!!!)
If you would like a little something to read over, though, check out the terrific interview Cassie Paton at Witty Title Here recently conducted with me. We chat about all things creativity, entrepreneurship and – indeed – creating a fulfilling life. I’m grateful to her for getting me out of my head and down on a page for a few moments!
I don’t have the answers. No one does. We’re all just rubber balls bouncing around this nutty thing called life…and I’m really bouncing at the moment! If nothing else, we’ll have a lot of grounds for commiseration when I return because I know that if you’re reading this blog, you’re there, too.
May we all bounce to the right place for us.